INFJ stands for Introversion, Intuition, Feeling, and Judgement. This personality type is considered, to be one of the rarest of the 16 Myers Briggs Personality Types, and makes up only about 2% of the world’s population.
People who have this personality type, have very unique characteristics, that help them stand out from other individuals. They can be incredibly mysterious, and emotionally intelligent, and sometimes referred to as “the counselor” or “advocate”.
Many of the most prolific actors, musicians, politicians, and even world leaders are INFJ. They are complex personalities, who rely on intuition and emotions to advocate for what they believe in.
1. Different Wavelength.
INFJ tend to feel like outsiders, due to the fact that most other individuals are on a different wavelength than they are. Their dominant function is intuition, they subconsciously notice patterns in basically everything. Since intuition works subconsciously, it can be described as a sort of ‘psychic ability’.
However, INFJs often have a difficult time trying to explain this “sixth sense” to other people, which often leads them feeling isolated or purely misunderstood.
2. Want Things Perfect, And Often Procrastinate.
People with this personality type often deal with a constant fear of failure. They strive for perfection, and strive to surpass the normal capabilities of a regular individual. They procrastinate a lot due to their subconscious need, to find absolute perfection in mostly everything. Even though, they can do all of these things they afraid of without even having to try so hard. With that said, they have a hard time dealing with criticism, because it really stands out in their minds, sometimes washing out the positive feedback they get.
However, as they become more mature, they find it easier to release themselves from this need of perfection. They may allow themselves to make more mistakes, or focus on their self-confidence to achieve remarkable results, pertaining to their life goals.
3. Value Beauty And Quality.
Beauty and Quality are things that an INFJ strives to find in just about everything, They simply prefer to be surrounded by sophistication and beauty. They are especially drawn to high quality things, such as fine food, nice clothes, and anything of good craftsmanship. Although their focus on sophisticated items, goes against their spiritual nature, beauty is a very inspiring, and calming force to them. Having said that, they are typically minimalists, They would rather have a few nice things, than a bunch of mediocre ones.
4. Exude Warmth And Charm.
Most of us don’t often sit next to a stranger, and find ourselves telling them our biggest fears, dreams, and personal secrets. But INFJs are such charming people, that it’s not uncommon for a stranger, to readily share such information with them. People with this personality type typically have an aura, that makes others feel incredibly comfortable, and at peace when they’re around them.
Just about everybody enjoys being in their company, and they are very good at putting people at ease. Not only are they comfortably trustworthy and charming individuals, but they are also wonderful listeners, who speak in understandable terms, and meet others where they are.
5. Highly Perceptive Of Others.
INFJs are able to read other individuals very well, and they are able to understand their emotional states, and start motivating them in seconds. They are not only very good at reading other people’s emotions and feelings, they also use their intuition to dig deep below the surface of another individual’s mind.
Find themselves intrigued with how other people’s minds work, and figuring out what makes them unique in their own way. They can often easily tell, when somebody is lying to them, or even when someone is lying to themselves!
6. Absorb Other People’s Emotions.
It’s common for INFJs to absorb other people’s emotions, and interpret them as their own feelings. For example, if somebody else around them is excited, they will often get excited as well. If someone is stressed or anxious, they may feel stressed or anxious too.
Feeling other people’s emotions in addition to their own, can be overwhelming. But, it also provides a better understanding for those feelings, and the ability to heal and comfort others. They can confidently tell other people, that they’re going to be okay.
7. Create Deep Emotional Intimacy.
Most INFJs can seem reserved or shy, in the presence of people they don’t know well. They are often perceived as mysterious, or merely private. But actually, they are quite relational, it can just take a little bit of time for them to open up to others, and show their true selves. They crave authentic connections, and seek to trust people on a deeper level. Because of their ability to emphasize, and have meaningful conversations, they establish strong emotional bonds with the people they trust.
8. True Introverted Nature.
Although INFJs are easy to socialize with, they are introverted individuals. They know how to efficiently blend into social settings, but they may also feel totally at peace with small circle of friends, who are trustworthy and deserving of their love. Like most introverts, INFJ usually get overwhelmed and exhausted, in large social settings or crowds. Even though they have an innate ability to strive in these social settings, they also need their individual alone time to relax and recharge.
9. Sensitive To Conflict.
Conflict tends to send INFJ personality types into a state of stress. They strive to create harmonious relationships with the people close to them, When a conflict arises, it can physically disrupt their seemingly constant optimistic nature. They will often have trouble sleeping or concentrating, when they are thinking about a conflict, It can even stress out their bodies to the point, where they get muscle aches, headaches, stomach pains, or other unwanted bodily disturbances.
Of course, this does not mean that, people with this personality type seek to avoid all conflict. But over time, INFJs learn to set healthy boundaries for conflicts, while standing up for their own needs at the same time, and they do so with absolute understanding of others.
10. Future Focused.
Willpower is a very important aspect of this personality type. They often do whatever they can, to move themselves closer to their personal goals. For example, if they’re in a relationship that seems to be going nowhere, or they are employed somewhere they don’t like, or don’t see a future in, they will break off the relationship, or quit their job.
They are also critical of past circumstances, and they tend to remember the bad experiences. To avoid the negative feelings that often accompany these flashbacks, they typically prefer to live a life focuses on the future.
11. Gravitate Toward People Who Need Help.
An INFJ is able to see the good in other people, However, they often fall victim to the Broken Wing Theory, as they believe they can rescue others. They find themselves gravitating toward people, who need help due to their ability to compassionately help and heal others.
12. Intellectual Thinker.
INFJs often find themselves thinking very deeply about their purpose meaning, and what makes everything in their lives the way they are. They enjoy music, reading, and philosophical or spiritual matters, because of their love for learning new things, and further expanding their understanding of the world. Naturally, because of their need to understand such deep revelations, They do not fall victim to trivial conversation, or gossip.
This is an extremely positive characteristic, but it also provides challenges in enjoying simple things, such as watching a movie, or having coffee with colleagues. INFJs often have a difficult time relaxing, or doing regular day to day activities, without overthinking them.
13. Gifted In Language.
Due to their introverted nature, INFJs typically spend their alone time engaging in their personal hobbies. Being so insightful provides vast expanse of creativity, and is often accompanied by a great understanding of language. They tend to prefer writing, over speaking, because writing is an outlet that allows them to express their creative thoughts or ideas, without as many barriers.
Conversation with others can easily fall short, or become negative, when talking about such opinionated matters, they avoid talking a lot, unless it’s necessary. Writing provides a sense of relaxation and peacefulness, because it is a wider plan for releasing one’s deepest thoughts.
14. Work Best Alone, Or In Small Groups.
They get along very well with others, but they often do their best work, when they work alone, without any interference from others. or they may work with a few individuals, whom they trust, and have similar thought processes to their own. While INFJs are emotional and highly sensitive individuals, they can be quite analytical, and scientific as well. They often enjoy a career associated with science, research, or technology.
15. Focused On What is Right.
Due to their loving and healing nature, INFJs often feel compelled to protect others, They may stand up to bullies on another person’s behalf, or focus on helping somebody, who is undergoing a difficult situation in life. If they chose a career where helping others isn’t necessarily involved, they will likely donate money, or find time to volunteer for a charity.
This personality types also find themselves with a fear of being a bad person, which motivates them to do what they believe is right. Thanks for watching video, subscribe for future video updates.
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