When Adam saw Eve he said, “This is now bone of my bones and flesh of my flesh, Adam recognized her as his equal.
A wife has the unique ability to help her husband feel the freedom, to reach his fullest potential as the man. God has created him to be. Once president of a country looks at the old boyfriend of her wife and remarks, “If you hadn’t married me, you might be married to that guy.”
The first lady answers calmly, “If I had married him, he would be president.”
As a wife, you have more power, than you might realize, to either build up your man, or to tear him down. Your words, your actions, and even your tone can bring out the very best in him.
The tone of your words to him can shape how he sees himself. Your encouragement has the power to fuel his passions, and give him the courage.
I’m not saying you can never point out something he’s doing wrong. BUT the overall tone must be one of encouragement. It will bring out the best in him.
Be CLEAR and direct with what you need from him and THANK him when he does it. If he feels like your needs or desires are always unspoken, unclear or unappreciated, he’ll lose hope. Clarity will help bring out his best.
Prayer is a powerful tool to simultaneously build a stronger faith. God often uses our prayers to change our own perspective on a situation. I believe that God can use prayers to supernaturally make a difference in a situation, when nothing else seems to be working. Pray for your husband. You might be the only person in his life who is praying for him.
Take a genuine interest in husband interests. Your husband wants you to be his best friend. He wants to share experiences and adventures with you.
Respect your spouse at all times by how you talk to him AND how you talk about him.
when things are particularly hard and the vision is tough to see, you can simply say “I trust you”. I know you doesn’t feel it or see it, but that’s what trust is! And when you tells him ,you trusts him and I know it’s a challenge for you, it gives your man confidence like none other.
This one’s the most important. When a wife recognizes her husband faults, and still loves him (and vice versa), that’s grace. Showing your husband how impressive he is to you, will allow him to believe, he is worthy to others.
No one is a mind reader. Not your mom, not your friend and especially not your husband. We show love (and grace) to our husband, when we help him understand our wants, needs, desires, etc.
Husband and wife relationships are like the relationship of Tom and Jerry. Though they are teasing and fighting, but can’t live without each other.
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